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Cheating Audeltry 

If you have ever been the victim of infidelity the first question you probably asked was "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat. There could be many reasons because there are many types of infidelity and cheating.

 

Opportunistic Infidelity


Opportunistic infidelity occurs when one is in love and attached to their partner, but succumbs to their sexual desire for someone else. Typically, this type of cheating is driven by situational circumstances or opportunity, risk-taking behavior, and alcohol or drug use. The more in love a person is with their partner, the more guilt he/she will experience as a result of their sexual encounter. However, feelings of guilt tend to fade as the fear of being caught subsides.

 

Obligatory Infidelity


This type of infidelity is based on fear. Fear that resisting someone's sexual advances will result in rejection. People may have feelings of sexual desire, love, and attachment for a partner, but still end up cheating because they have a strong need for approval. In addition, their need for approval can cause them to act in ways that are at odds with their other feelings. In other words, some people cheat, not because they want to cheat, but because they need the approval that comes along with a having the attention of others.

 

Romantic Infidelity


This type of infidelity occurs when the cheater has little emotional attachment to his/her partner. They may be committed to their marriage and making it work but they long for an intimate, loving connection with someone else. More than likely, their commitment to the marriage will prevent them from ever leaving their spouse. Romantic infidelity means pain for the other man/other woman and the cheating partner.

 

Conflicted Romantic Infidelity

 

This type of infidelity occurs when people experience genuine love and sexual desire for more than one person at a time. Despite our idealistic notions of having only one true love, it is possible to experience intense romantic love for multiple people at the same time. While such situations are emotionally possible, they are very complicated and tend to create a lot of anxiety and stress. In this case, cheating partners, in their attempt not to cause anyone harm, often end up hurting everyone.

 

Commemorative Infidelity

 

This type of infidelity occurs when a person is in a committed relationship but has no feelings for his or her partner. There is no sexual desire or love or attachment, only a sense of commitment keeping the couple together. These people justify cheating by telling themselves they have the right to look for what they are not getting in their present relationship.